Your views reflect my own EXACTLY aliby - I very much value books, i lurve them, I'm precious over them and have shelves and shelves of them. Fiction and non-fiction are different creatures tho. With novels, I have no need to write on them and duly insert my bookmark before rolling over and switching off my bedside lamp. With information books, I'm intimately involved - it becomes a mutual work in progress; amassing piles of loose sheets doesn't do for me, I'm afraid.
Library books, however, are out of bounds. A unanimous result.