seems like we're the only ones that seem bothered about this particular topic i00t2000!

Tell me about it! Well, it's pretty important for us two, anyway...

you're not the only ones worry about this, I've got an interview next week, and another application on the way. I would like either but feel more comftable with the second. what do i do if i get the first? there's no way you can turn down a funded PhD but I'd feel i was missing out on the second, so would it be ethical to go for it anyway and turn down the first a month later?

hi i00t2000. I don't know if this helps at all, but I will write about my past experience: I was offered a funded PhD position at one university, I liked the supervisor, resources etc but I wasn't sure if I liked the town. Then they sent me all the paper work. I didn't return anything back, because I was waiting to hear from the other university that I applied for a place. When I heard the positive reply from them, I considered the pros and cons and decided to go for the 2nd offer, and kindly turned down the 1st offer. But it didn't end there. I received a horrible (quite long) email from the supervisor from the 1st offer and he talked about how much I waisted their time etc. My current supervisor convinced me that it was a very unprofessional behaviour and every PhD candidate has to have a plan B etc. Now I am on my final year. I will never know how it would be if I chose the 1st offer, but that doesn't matter really, does it?

continuing....

So, follow your heart, make your pros+cons list and don't accept anything until you see all your options (but don't leave it to too late either.). Good luck.

Hi 404, thanks a lot for that reply, it does help 8) And not just for me, I hope it helps the others in this situation too. My situation is pretty unique since both potential supervisors often do work together!! Annoying one will not be good -_-

But your past experience has made me think about it... I know doing it would not be a nice thing to do, but I guess to get anywhere in life you really have to do what's best for you, and cover all of your bases.

Wouldn't worry in the slightest, its a numbers game and they'll expect you to have applied elsewhere. It would be unprofessional really for them to ask (although they often do anyway!). My approach has been to say I'm very interested in their project, specify why and leave it at that.......alternatively you can lie and say yes, it's not like they can sue if you change your mind.....or is there a law grad around to contradict me on that?