Quote From Meep:
Thank you for your reply, pm133.
If pages per hour were the only way I measured progress, I might agree with you, however, if I am trying to walk from Cape Town to Cairo and only have 3 years full time to do so, then there will be a minimum number of paces I need to take each day. I find that the best way of getting a rough idea of this is to speak to people who have walked there. This does not discard the notion that I may have to divert because it is flooded in a certain area or that I like the view from Mount Kilimanjaro and decide to enjoy the view for a few days...
If I learn that I have to walk 30 miles a day and I know that I am only capable of walking 5, then at this current point in time when I am still in the Cape Town suburbs, I may then need to come up with some aids to get to Cairo on time. Had I not compared or at least enquired about other people's experiences, how would I have known that at the end of 3 years, I would only have gotten to Tanzania. I would rather know that now instead of having to try to cram 1/2 PhD into the last 10 percent of the time available.
I don't find that brutal. It is just time management and planning.
Why do you think it is damaging to try to get an idea of these things?
You asked for opinions and you have been given several. You are under no obligation to accept any of them but you appear to be getting a bit defensive over my answer which was a genuine attempt to help you so I shall bale out of the discussion. Good luck.