juno, I am 32 now, until last year I didn't feel anything about wanting babies, being a mother etc. I had no instinct, not even a tiny bit. Last year I suddenly felt the urge to have a baby and blamed my biological clock. Also my father died last year, so I don't know if my feelings are related to that. But I know what you mean. People love labelling other people that aren't like themselves. If you don't want a baby, that's the end of the story. There is no but, why etc. The world is full of babies who need love and home anyway. I still can't decide whether I should bring one to this world or adopt a baby who needs a new chance in life.