Well I personally love these threads! They are incredibly useful, not only to the original poster, but also to the rest of us who have the same situation looming - they are encouraging, informative and a perfect use of the forum! So what if we have a few of them? It really doesn't matter - better than half the spam rubbish we get on here - that does annoy me, but this kind of thread is great. This forum (in my mind) is a group of people, all in the same boat, all relatively isolated, and a place where we can get encouragement, help and build up friendships and share our hopes, fears, ideas, success, etc etc. Don't like, don't bother reading, but don't make a new member feel bad *climbs back off soapbox*