thanks Jamie..would be nice to where you draw the line between the two. work hard! play hard! we've only got 24 hours in a day. 8 of which are spent asleep. 16 between day to day stuff, phd, friends. where's the time?
H - me and my fiance lived in different cities while doing our degrees. It was tough being apart, but we talked on the phone twice a day and saw each other every other weekend. I think living apart made our relationship stronger because you stop taking each other for granted.