Love mincepies and Chrismtas pudding (vegan ofcourse!). Also absolutely ADORE brussel sprouts

Sounds promising. Well I shagged the undergrad on Saturday, so thats quite a positive sign!! however, he does tend to be a bit fickle

btw the singer is an opera singer.
What look are you going to go for with your undergrad? I reckon sexy and smart

I'm the same as you. I prefer the undergrad, although I no that the other one would be much better for me. Going to go for the jeans and cool top look with my favourite hat

Ok: Crush number one is 39, professional singer
Crush number two is 22, undergrad

Well I'd be careful accepting my advice. I'm still single!!

Probably see both my crushes tonight. Ooh, what to wear?!!

We Three Kings is generally not sung til Epiphany - early January, well at least it shouldnt be but lots of places sing it before.

Got carol singing tonight

Say that you think its best discussed over a coffee. Then on your way to the coffee shop ask him if he'd prefer discussing it over a pint

As a cathedral chorister, I have to admit I hate cheesy Christmas stuff. It has to be proper choral music or nothing

This is not the same ex as the ex I mention a couple of posts ago. This one is also younger than me and we only went out for one week. But I have always had a real 'school girl' crush on him. Dont normally fancy people that much, so now have nice warm glow

I got off with my ex at the weekend. Now I've changed my crush and I'm in lust with him again

No absolutely nothing wrong as long as its legal. I went out with someone who was significantly younger than me once (by 8 years) but he was really mature - in fact he was the 'sensible' one in the relationship - and the only reason we split up was because we lived so far apart (in different continents in fact!). Age never came into the relationship at all. My new crush is 11 years older than me, and I dont normally fall for the older man!

Good luck wj_gibson. If it's any consolation, I just had my viva and didnt even prepare for it that much because I was ill during the run up to it. I just read it through a couple of days before and couldnt believe what crap it was, decided the whole thing was very shakey, prepared myself to fail etc (I also had minimal supervision and felt like I'd done it alone). But in the end it was fine and I'm sure yours will be too. Its probably normal to have these last minute worries

Aargh!! Thanks H. Off him already