i am just going to be calm and try not to shout at my supervisor. Blessss

this is not a paper. This is not my thesis. This is not a technical report. This is not a letter. This is not an e-mail to my supervisor. So therefore I really don't care about my grammar.
If good grammar is a requirement for this site then I aint usin it no more

i saw the graduate advisor. I dont think he believed what i was saying. He basically told me to e-mail her with a list of what i wanted to talk to her about and ask for a specific meeting. I am going to try doing that. I will email him in as well.
this place is full of political crap. I cant take much more.

u know what - ur probably right. theres only so much i can take. The woman is far 2 controling.

ok some of you may know about her. Yesterday i tried to confront her - she just started shouting saying stuff like - u have to do it this way because i am ur supervisor. i go but its not helping me - she said - but it is helping me & i am very busy so u have to help me. She keeps on saying i am forgetting things - i have forgotten 2 things.The amount of things that she has forgotten are countless.
I just feel like she is controling me too much. I want to quit - i feel like she doesnt trust me, that must mean i am crap - i dont know how much more i can take of her.
Either I change supervisor after my 9month report/literature review (which i am not allowed to start - as she cant keep up with all the work i am doing) or i quit.
My other supervisor (is head of school) is good mates with her. My head of group is her husband. My graduate school advisor is the only way so i will see him after easter.
I wanted to punch her face in yesterday.

why the question?

u shud go and see the head of ur grad school.

people usually like to help - but its easter and things are probably difficult. I think the best way to generate outside interest is to say stuff like they are really good etc and say that u are more than willing to give them ur results or soemthing.

ok i can see them now

unable to see them on fire fox

Stu.....u just wait!!!! Ur time will come and we will all be happy to help and be happy to say 'I told you so'.

OK I AM COMPLAINING - There is only so much i can take of this woman. We got in for a project bid. The bid is to do with my phd BUT it sponsoring me. According to university rules - i shud be paid for any involvmenet in a project- but becuase its to do with my phd she is saying no. I dont get paid for my involvkenmet on a project if i am being sponsored by it. I DONT UNDERSTAND.

I agree that talking is the key and its the only way i can resolve the situation. I will do it... its just going to be scary...
I am glad that you guys think that its a problem...
do u think i am blowing this out of proportion?

i emailed a good professor mate of mine...and she is going to help me with some conflict management. I think its a good idea.... what do u all think - i dont watn to change the supervisor - i jst want to change her attitiude.

we're not allowed to spend that long here anymore... but she started in the days where she was allowed to spend that long on one...
Agrh - the woman is driving me insane - esp with her stupid agendas AGRH.