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Everything I have said is based on my experiences in Britain.
It has just ocurred to me that you are probably in the US, and it seems things are a lot harder there according to the following article. I am absolutely shocked at how little is done for victims of bullying in the US by employers, the legal system and unions. It is absolutely shocking and totally reprehensible.
sieajiang:
You are NOT weak. His bullying is telling you that you are weak. You are NOT.
Who cares if the head of the institute is trying to talk you out of it. He is wrong too.
You are the superhero that can save yourself. Collate evidence of his bullying. Stand up to him. Get other post-docs to evaluate your practice, give them written feedback forms to fill out for you on what you have done and your contribution to the team. Get them to write down statements about how they have been treated. You need bargaining power.
It's not about being nice, it's about leverage and power.
He has a lot of power because he is winning funding. You can win leverage when you have a portfolio of evidence you are doing your job right especially feedback from other members of the team and their statements of what is going on.
Your boss is displaying psychopathic tendencies because he has a very strong desire to control the work being done. He is under a lot of pressure to produce results. You have to produce results at the same time as proving to him your worth as a person. This involves playing him at his own game. You need leverage.
Get results and get evidence of good practice. Are you a member of a Union? What support services are available?
Sorry it has taken so long for me to get back to you on this I have been really busy with interviews, writing assignments and organising conferences.
You are every bit as brave as me. I went through something similar in one of my professional workspaces where I was being bullied by a very powerful boss. I built up masses of evidence that I was doing my job properly and reported him to the union who backed me up. It was taken to a tribunal and all 13 of the professionals on the tribunal panel voted in favour of me and he was disgraced.
You have done very well making friends with everyone, you need as many people on side as possible. He has a weakness. He is trying to keep the teams apart. Capitalise on this and build up a forum of support. Support each other. Chat, get evidence.
You are a better person than him. I feel your pain it is soul destroying to be tortured by another human being who you just want to get along with so you can get the job done. Some people are so selfish they are evil. This man is one of them. Trust me.
He is trying to impose psychological torture on you to force you to quit.
You know what he wants so you have power over him.
DO NOT QUIT.
He has no power over you.
As long as you don't quit you are winning.
Psychological torture is against the law.
Film him doing what he is doing, record him on your phone speaking to you the way he does, do all the things he doesn't want you to do.
After you have finished your postdoc you can put these films on youtube.
Who is the winner now.
Learn his plan and come up with a better one.
Make friends with everybody... get them to help you build up a portfolio of evidence that you are brilliant at your job.
I have been through something similar in a professional workplace.
Know this YOU ARE BETTER THAN HIM AND GOD WILL PUNISH HIM.
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