hello peeps. i'm bored to buggery. someone tell me a joke to entertain me.

mmmm kitchadi khadhi....i miss home.

I absolutely agree with 404. I ended a 3 year relationship 5 months ago, and after a lot of depression and thinking, the most important thing I've learnt since then is that you cannot have a good lasting relationship unless you do things for yourself first, and get to know yourself. Then you'll be comfortable with yourself. My ex and I were extremely close, but if both of us learnt to deal with problems ourselves more, then our relationship wouldn't have been so bad.

I wasn't in the same position as you, in fact we were the opposite. But I suppose the same lesson is to be learnt.

Do things for yourself and he'll want you more.

Not at all. I suggest you seduce your man tonight with some lingerie and whatnot. That'll make you feel better. Always worked for me.

Whereabouts are you? I'm sure you're a great guy, you'll find someone easily. I'm in London and have also come out of a long term (ish) relationship (3years), and I feel like I'm in the right place to meet new people.

How exciting! Have fun!

H I'll try and find it. I watched this film at the right time, so much stuff has been going on for me lately and this film has made me feel better. By the way when is your wedding?

p.s. its really funny too

I just saw an amazing film tonight. It realtes to what we've been talking about here. Its called 'The namesake'. Look it up and watch it. Esp those who and not native english.

There probably are a higher number of unhappy marriages this way, but I think those ones are just not doing it right. i.e. thinking hard enough about whether the person is right for them. But those that do have the freedom to, will choose to get to know each other properly first...and then decide.

No no its not a case of I like you lets get married. Its case of lets get to know each other, date and see if we would be happy together.

Otto its just a way of meeting new people. Theres nothing wrong with it. Its only wrong when its forced.

Wow thats cute. I really hope so much I find someone soon. It sucks being single.

I agree with all of the above H.


Can I ask....how did you guys meet, you sound so happy!

Wow that sounds great, congratulations! I hope so much I find someone. I emailed this guy I was just telling you guys about....turns out he's married.

How hilarious! I'm actually so proud of myself though for asking anyway. But I hate so much being single...I have very few single friends.