I remember once I was jealous of a colleague of my ex boyfriend because she was really gorgeous and most importantly she was flirting with him CONSTANTLY! Now I look back and laugh at myself but then I was really jealous Try not to think aboutit and find somewhere to go on Friday night!!!

I agree too!

I am wondering: Do men care about what WE like? Would they ever have a discussion like that?

Tell us more about them. Age, profession, style etc and we can tell you what to wear!Ahh! And place of meeting!

Lol H !!!! I agree! Hair color is so secondary...

She is great, isnt she? I will definitely ask for more advice from DJ!

Maria_z: Maybe Athina does not want to attract the type of guys you are describing!

Athina, why dont you try different shades of brown? They make the face look "sweet" and feminine. Maybe too dark with red will make you look pale if your skin is white.

It depends on your skin tone and your eye color. I also have dark brown hair; recently added some redish brown and gives it a hint of warmth. Depends what you want!

DJWichid, I really love your tamperament (I am pretty much like you, having a new crush every week)!!! I think little boys do prefer older girls, so maybe I should also get dressed more "smart sexy" than trendy-casual. What do you think? Any news about your crush? I must say I really enjoy your posts!

the 22 year old, sorry I get so nervous when I talk about him

I am back asking for your help . The 22year undergrad sent me a mail that he wants to come to my office and ask more about my research. How can I seduce him with all the other people in the office?

I am 27 and feel old already! I see all the undergrad girls and boys in the Uni, all so lively, so fresh... I wish I was 20 (my peak) too. I am going through a crisis these days, thinking that I wanna do all the things I thought I would do in the future when i was younger, not to waste time doing nothing...not to let my last years of youth go.. (havent bought my first anti-aging creme yet though )

Would anyone dare to date an undergrad? Sorry DJWickid, this is your post but maybe we can share our pain . Well actually yours is not a problem at all. The guy has a girlfriend but since he is flirtatious with you, maybe she is not the ONE for him and he is old enough (I suppose) to change his mind and make his own decisions. If he is not married yet... it is not unenthical at all. We all try in different relationships until we find the ONE! In my case I dont think that a 22 year old boy is the one, I just feel highly attracted by him! He is really GORGEOUS! Am I a pedofile? Or perverted?

I understand you DJWickid. After my fellow PhD student crush, now it is an undergarduate guy (he was one of my participants in an experiment, then he contacted me for further advice). I am 5 years older than him but mst importantly... he is an undergrad and hence I should not dare to do anything with him! But he is really sweet! I always liked older guys but he is gorgeous and so clever (he got a bonus in the experiment ). Why do we always find the wrong men/boys?