Signup date: 07 Oct 2014 at 10:05am
Last login: 27 Feb 2017 at 1:08pm
Post count: 33
I think it wouldn't be a good option to complain about your supervisor. Even if there is a chance for that in some universities, it would surely reflect badly on this academic relationship with the supervisor, especially that as a supervisor she has a final judgement on your thesis. I think what might be practical is to avoid clashes with her as much as possible and to act wisely. Maybe you can try to focus on developing your thesis and apologize for tasks that you cannot fulfill.
It is so unkind of them! But I would suggest that you take this negative experience as a challenge to change yourself a bit and face your fears of confronting others in social circles. This will give you a strong motivation to ignore their negative attitude towards you. So get prepared for your every meeting, try to drop your comments and if you got interrupted, don't despair. Imagine yourself in a lecture and take notes of their discussion. At the end of the day, those meetings will not continue forever, so in the meantime use this opportunity to change something in your personality that will stay within you forever. Struggle strenghthens people.
I agree with TreeofLife, pursuing a PhD for the sake of a better job doesn't seem a good idea. For doing a PhD, one should have a strong reason to devote a long period of one's life. A PhD would take more in the world of academia, and I understood, you want to increase your capacities for better and high ranking jobs. You can develop your skills and competence in your field by going for training courses, workshops and even doing another Master's degree..
The analysis of interview data would take a month at least, and it was intended to reply to and support a secondary research question. That is why I was thinking to drop it. But I don't know if it is possible, and I am hesitant to ask the supervisor because I am worried that he gets the impression that things are not under control and that might weaken my argument in front of him. Some pieces of advice and thoughts plssss
Hello,
It seems that those "symptoms" are spreading among us all "the PhD students". I have to complete writing up in less than five months. I have been in a similar situation like yours recently. I went through a hard time of despair and frustration. But I kept pushing myself on, and I decided to "try" to stop thinking about how much time is left and how much work is yet to be done. I realized that what has passed (in terms of effort and time) is worth sacrificing what is yet to come.
So keep pushing yourself and don't quit. We will be able to finish and succeed.
All the best.
PostgraduateForum Is a trading name of FindAUniversity Ltd
FindAUniversity Ltd, 77 Sidney St, Sheffield, S1 4RG, UK. Tel +44 (0) 114 268 4940 Fax: +44 (0) 114 268 5766
An active and supportive community.
Support and advice from your peers.
Your postgraduate questions answered.
Use your experience to help others.
Enter your email address below to get started with your forum account
Enter your username below to login to your account
An email has been sent to your email account along with instructions on how to reset your password. If you do not recieve your email, or have any futher problems accessing your account, then please contact our customer support.
or continue as guest
To ensure all features on our website work properly, your computer, tablet or mobile needs to accept cookies. Our cookies don’t store your personal information, but provide us with anonymous information about use of the website and help us recognise you so we can offer you services more relevant to you. For more information please read our privacy policy
Agree Agree