I am (africa origin) midway in my PhD, but thinking about having a lady lover is seriously hampering my progress. I am afraid to talk about love to a lady. Colleagues, help me get a lady.

You have a big problem. Even if you are helped to get one, I am afraid you might fall out with the lady along the way because you might not be able to manage her well!

I am Africa origin too and I can be ur lady. Do you mean dating with future prospects or justing "lover"? Answer that and how old you are, then come get me.

Myra, I mean starting a relationship which can develop into long or lasting partnership. I mean well.

Myra, I am between 35 and 40

Ok what are your contacts? Which part of Africa too, North, south,East, West or Central? I am 30

Myra, sorry i could not respond because I was out of uni. My email is tuss30at@yhoo.co.uk. I am from West Africa.

This is just weird!

Good luck Tuss & Myra - please invite us to the wedding.

Hi Team, sorry there wont be a wedding as Tuss thought I was a guy yet am really a lady/ girl. Hehehe

But Tuss said he was looking for a lady! This is getting weirder...

Tuss and Myra, What actually happened? Think you were not open to each other.

Tuss, a PhD is all about learning to work on your own *nudge nudge wink wink*