I have taken the weekend off totally - not even opened the door to my study (a miracle) - and feel a bit guilty but better than I have done for months! i am quite a workaholic in the sense that i feel guilty when i am not working and would rather be sat around but with my computer on and ready to go, than not at all. I am starting to learn that this is not healthy! I worry about being slack, seeing as I work for myself essentially, or about regretting not putting in 20 hour days at this stage somewhere down the line! is all irrational but when you in the middle of the fretting my word it is comsuming... Thanks for your help and for being so welcoming all!