I'd be worried if a supervisor doesn't contact you directly. It's probably an indication of future supervision.
I would go to the other interview anyway, you've got nothing to lose by doing that. I wouldn't mention you have another offer, just say you've been to another interview, as you don't want to prejudice the outcome in any way.
As a side note, my two supervisors have over 15 students and they still manage to give me excellent supervision. It depends on the person.