...with a bloke called Sam. But I dont think he loves me. He says 'hello' and thats about it. He's very friendly when i do speak to him, but its obvious it hasnt yet occurred to him that I am the love of his life.

What should I do?!! how can I make him see the light?!

You must ask him out on a date.

...yes, you must...and soon. It is the only thing to do.

Urm...I think you should do the whole 'I'm patently interested in you but too shy to ask you out so you are going to have to do it first routine' . I'm trying to work that angle at the mo', true - it doesn't seem to be getting me anywhere. But it is fairly minimal risk.

That's so sweet . Watch him when he talks to other people about daily stuff and then compare his behaviour to how he acts when he speak about the similar things when you are alone. Is it different? Can you sense different energy from him (but don't confuse this with your feelings). If you feel his existence in the room in even without seeing him, and you always bump into him just after thinking about him, then it is very likely that the feelings are mutual (I think).

Make lots of excuses to go see him and chat more. do you work with him? Make sure he comes to the Christmas party!

Is he hot?

Have your tried e-mailing to get to know each other better. I'd been head over heels for my now hubby for ages, but had no idea how to get his attention. Got a work-related e-mail from him one day - I replied, he replied and this went on for a bit and got more friendly, then we finally got it together.

If I'd never done the thing I did wrong that meant he had to send an e-mail telling me off, we might never have got married!

I agree with katq - talk to him as often as poss - make it obvious you're interested! If he starts to run away when you approach, you'll know its a no go!

My best friend & I have decided to become boyfriend & girlfriend...gulp!

Aww fififole...that so cute! Good luck!

I plan to stumble around at work tomorrow as I try and not look too embarassed around my crush....

fififole, that is really sweet! I often think about whether me and my best male friend should be together. Its a really hard one.

I think I will be bold and try to talk to Sam some more

happy for you Wickid!

Aww this is so sweet, you guys are gonna make me cry

How sweeeeet!