Yes, sexy smart! Thats how he saw me first time and the results were good so I wont change the recipe . It is also that we meet in the office during the day and not in a bar or something. So I can only look sophisticated sexy . Jeans, mid. heels and tight shirt-top

Is the undergrad interested in you? Do you have any clue? The only clue I have is that I gave him a very long questionnaire to complete at home (without any payment) and send me a mail to meet me to hand it in and he did it! Lol! I mean he sent the mail that he completed it and that he wants to meet me on Thursday to hand it in and ask more about my reserach. I take it its a good sign!

Sounds promising. Well I shagged the undergrad on Saturday, so thats quite a positive sign!! however, he does tend to be a bit fickle

And the opera singer?

This is fantastic. I'll be monitoring the dress sense of my undergrads on the off-chance.....

Sylvester! we need a man here! What do you think I should tell my undergrad in order to get him somehwere where we would be alone?

You could accidentally bump into him in the corridor when he is on the way to the office. You could be all flirty and interested in what he has to say, lots of eye contact, play with your hair. That sort of stuff. I fall for it every time! Basically get him thinking about you after your meeting. You then need another reason for him to see you. If you're real lucky, he might volunteer to come and see you.

You might want to give him opportunity to pull you (so to speak). He'll probably love that!

To pull me? What do you mean?

could find yourself a cute phd student!! hehe, three is always nice round number

I have news on my crushes. I decided not to pursue any of them, and have just started going out with my male best friend Its all very bizarre, but also very nice and feels 'right' if a little surreal. Atleast no awkward silences not knowing what to say to each other

Good luck DJ...

So going out with your mate - that I explains what I read in the newspaper about Orlando dying of a broken heart...

I'm going to go and see him today (he lives three hours drive from me). I'm really nervous as we've only been together less than two weeks. It feels a bit weird.

Orlando knows he's still the love of my life, but I just cant take his gallivanting