urgent - how do i get him back?

J

hi everyone, thanks for the flirting tips n all. guess what, the worst just happened. my crush asked my friend - if they could hang out over the weekend.. what should i do????????????

feel like my life is over.....

:-(.

C

Do it now!! You can't have the rug pulled from under your feet.

Keep looking! (this is turning into the PhD Where's Wally?'. lol

J

am gonna go to and see him tonight. he lives round the corner. or ask him round to mine for a meal...in the next thirty mins? what do you think guys?

true, i only have one shot at this. i have to get in there fast.

C

Yes, yes, yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Inspire me with your luck.....your bravery will inspire me to go forth into the romantic fray of life.

Good luck.

J

just called him..

we're gonna be spending the evening at his house tonight.

time i checked all them flirting tips.

getting ready..trying to follow all your advice. picking the right lipstick!!

so excited!!

thanks Chris n MistaG!!!!!!

wish me luck!

will give you an update later.

J.

C

Yay! I'm so pleased.

You must promise to tell us ALL!

J

i will guys......

A

Good luck!!!!

J

hey guys,

guess what.....

i got him back!!!!!!!!!!! he cancelled the meeting with my 'friend'!!!!!!!

guess am back on track then. anyhow, went round to his place yesterday - took some snack.., was just him n i, spend some quality time together, got to know each other, he made me dinner....aaahh .. put all your flirting tips into practice, was looking very sexy, wore the right lipstick, right perfume, maintained eye contact, tilted my head a bit when talking, gave him a brush now and then when i was talking.. , i was amazed at how well it was going.. we spoke for hours !!!!!! n it only felt like a minute, now he can't have been bored, can he?

he gave me a bear hug when i was leaving..

well, waiting for his call now...asking me for another date.

keeping my fingers crossed.

thanks for your suggestions. you saved my life!

J

oh..... n he walked me home.... :-X

C

Wow! That went amazingly well: I hope your friend isn't too peeved! But great news...go girl!

I am off to a free fringe concert tonight and I know my crush will be there....time to turn up my best moves.... *god help us all!* lol

J

Chris - well, my friend doesn have a clue, it turned out that she was the one who was interested in hanging out - not him - it's amazing what 'friends' can do to their friends.

keeping my fingers crossed for you Chris! we'll be waiting for an update

MistaG - all down to your encouragement! thanks.

J

Ann - thanks. i definitely needed it.

S

Reminds me of my first boyf - he'd agreed to go on a date with someone else because I hadn't had the guts to ask him first. In the end the cancelled on her and we got it together...unfortunately he snogged like an octopus on my face so it didn't last LOL

F

Congrats. My friend is coming next weekend, and I am nervously excited!

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