Dated in Thailand while I was visiting

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I visited Thailand a few weeks ago. I stayed there for a week or two. I ended up meeting single women in Thailand. This was really fun but one chick really stood out among the rest and I went out with her 4 times. She was really nice and beautiful. I want to contact her again but I’m really not sure if I should. I’m based in another country and I’m not sure if long distance relationships are bearable. I’d love to hear from anyone here who is in a long distance relationship. What pushed you to start the relationship even though you knew it would be long distance? Is it really that hard? How often do you visit each other?

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Hooo boy

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Not sure where to start with this...

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Not sure where to start with this...


I do but I am pretty sire I would be banned from the site for posting it.
Shame. It was a hilarious response too. :-D

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Maybe someone should explain their opinion / view so that jacoblincoln understands why he isn't getting the advice he is asking for. Otherwise not very helpful!

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I visited Thailand a few weeks ago. I stayed there for a week or two. I ended up meeting single women in Thailand. This was really fun but one chick really stood out among the rest and I went out with her 4 times. She was really nice and beautiful. I want to contact her again but I’m really not sure if I should. I’m based in another country and I’m not sure if long distance relationships are bearable. I’d love to hear from anyone here who is in a long distance relationship. What pushed you to start the relationship even though you knew it would be long distance? Is it really that hard? How often do you visit each other?


It's not going to happen- move on!

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It could happen! I know someone who did something similar. He thought he was the only one, but after a year or so he found out she was dating lots of men from different countries!

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Maybe someone should explain their opinion / view so that jacoblincoln understands why he isn't getting the advice he is asking for. Otherwise not very helpful!


Do you actually believe the original poster is seriously looking for help? :-D
The use of the word "chick" to describe women should be a pretty good giveaway.

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Quote From Tudor_Queen:
Maybe someone should explain their opinion / view so that jacoblincoln understands why he isn't getting the advice he is asking for. Otherwise not very helpful!


Do you actually believe the original poster is seriously looking for help? :-D
The use of the word "chick" to describe women should be a pretty good giveaway.


Yes! Isn't he then? Please explain... it's not my area! :D

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Quote From Tudor_Queen:
Quote From pm133:
Quote From Tudor_Queen:
Maybe someone should explain their opinion / view so that jacoblincoln understands why he isn't getting the advice he is asking for. Otherwise not very helpful!


Do you actually believe the original poster is seriously looking for help? :-D
The use of the word "chick" to describe women should be a pretty good giveaway.


Yes! Isn't he then? Please explain... it's not my area! :D


At the risk of mansplaining, the OP is clearly taking the piss by using a derogatory word like chick to describe women to see if any bites can be had from any online "snowflakes" who might be active on here. He is deliberately trying to bait an outraged response.
He got you good......
Come on, surely you spotted that? You are winding me up right? :-D

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If you begin a PhD you will be so distracted that you will forget about this 'chick'.

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Quote From pm133:
Quote From Tudor_Queen:
Quote From pm133:
Quote From Tudor_Queen:
Maybe someone should explain their opinion / view so that jacoblincoln understands why he isn't getting the advice he is asking for. Otherwise not very helpful!


Do you actually believe the original poster is seriously looking for help? :-D
The use of the word "chick" to describe women should be a pretty good giveaway.


Yes! Isn't he then? Please explain... it's not my area! :D


At the risk of mansplaining, the OP is clearly taking the piss by using a derogatory word like chick to describe women to see if any bites can be had from any online "snowflakes" who might be active on here. He is deliberately trying to bait an outraged response.
He got you good......
Come on, surely you spotted that? You are winding me up right? :-D


Really? Lol! I honestly had no idea! But then I'm not much of a snowflake so it was all wasted on me! I just assumed it was a serious but naive request for advice - thanks for explaining.

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For me the alarm bells were 'ended up meeting single women', 'Thailand', 'this was really fun', 'chick' and 'went out 4 times'...

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OK... I am still not quite clear here.

Was this post a bait to make people get outraged, as pm133 suggests? Or, was it a genuine question from a naive person?

Those are two completely different different things!

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I have no idea what the OPs purpose was, just that it didn't come across as genuine to me. I expected some sort of link to click on for Thai women at the end. It's also got nothing to do with postgrad stuff and it was a first post from this person, so I figured it was spam whatever its intentions were.

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