Hi. I have just started my PhD in Manchester (Chemistry). I am from Scotland and don't have any friends here. I have been out with some lab colleagues but they are older and have families. I am feeling a bit lonely and stressed with starting the PhD. Any suggestions what to do?

Hey- it'll get better! Try to fing something to do in the evenings- do a language course, find out about the university sports club.... or whatever interest you. Otherwise you'll end up going home and sitting infront of the TV feeling dissatified because all you do is work.

Besides- after a few weeks you'll get the hang of things and feel less stressed. Many of my colleauges have families too- how about other labs? Do you have any next door labs with new PhD students?? Go and start conversations with others about Manchester or what ever.

Hi Lonely. Have you tried joining any clubs and societies through uni ? Fear not, a lot of people will be in the same boat as you. Or what about the postgrad society if you'd rather be amongst your peers ?

suggest a night out at the pub and ply them with alcohol. they'll love you forever!

seriously though (was serious before too!) your uni really should have a post-grad society thingy. if they don't then suggest starting one. you'll be fine-its always a bit crappy when you first move somewhere new

Manchester has a post-grad society it's called the Burlington Society, based near the library.

I know how you feel - I hardly see anyone in the dept! Hopefully as most PhD students start in October there will be new people to chat to. At least that's what I'm hoping as I'm getting very bored I might have to start talking to myself! It's really weird starting in the middle of the summer especially if you have been working! What about flatmates? Do you have any that you could do things with?

Thank you for your advice. I am finding my feet now and met some nice people.

hey lonely, am in manchester!!! get in touch.