Thank you Satchi, I tried to let it go but every time I decide to visit family back home everything come back and stronger!
On his side, yes he is married and I am not sure if he is willing to start over. Affair does not exist in my life's dictionary. I dream of having a family with him yes but not through an affair! crazy me, yes. I am sorry for your status with your spouse. I am sure you have the right to find your right man and not to stay in a marriage just for your mom and social blah blah. Move out and whenever you find your nice man don't let him go.

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Hi Sari, Are you sure there is no one of your supervisors you feel you can finish with? Think if you can exclude one the two then which one should be out of this work? I would choose the supervisor who knows nothing about the subject. Other solution, Insist to make one meeting in the presence of both supervisors and explain your point and how do you feel discouraged. Write down you minutes after the meeting and send it to both of them so nobody conflict the other.
I always believe in communication as the best tool for any supervisor/supervisee conflict. If you tried the two solutions and still could not be productive then move to new supervisor but consider the years you have already invested before making such decision. In my opinion, changing the supervisor decision should be taken during or after the first year of the program and anytime when the student has the urge to quit the program due to lack of supervision.

Wish you all the best

Hang in there we all have had our down times

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