I'm having a similar situation. Recently got wind that my bf of 3 years will be "asking" soon and I think I'm a little nervous. Last week I met a friend of my cousin and I have a little crush. Right now I'm sort of mentally freaking out because I don't think I should be feeling interest like this. It doesn't help that for the last 7 1/2 months our relationship has had to be a bit of a distance one (2 hour drive). Robbers, I'm not trying to take over your thread or anything, but everyone seems to have good advice in this one!!